So the connect.ini that I use to play is going to be diffrent from the person or people playing outside the LAN? That being said, I would have point HFS at 69.245.147.200 instead of 192.168.1.101?
EDIT: Okay I get it. Its a port forwarding issue.... No one will will be able to get the files if they cant get to my computer through the router. Back to the lab again. Thanks for all your help!